Question by Bill Swersky: Why is this Asian girl I know acting so strangely?
There is this Asian friend of friends of mine who has been acting weird lately and I need good advice. We were having a small get together two weekends ago at a friend’s place and having a good night when two of the four people left the room to grab something from the kitchen downstairs, leaving me and her. Without a word, she took off her sandals, put her bare feet on my lap, and smiled. I don’t enjoy people doing that anyways, let alone without permission, so I pushed them away. As I was telling her why that I wasn’t in the mood for that sort of stuff and didn’t like it, she lifted her feet up at my eye level and wiggled her toes slightly. When I asked why she was doing that, she told me “Because I want you to see how special and beautiful my feet are, silly!”. She asked me to look deeply at them for ten seconds and I agreed on the condition she’d finally stop. After gazing at them, she finally took them away and hid them, thankfully, but not before saying how proud she was of me that I would do that for her. My friends came back then and I made my excuses to leave shortly afterwards. I didn’t tell my friends because I did not want to cause trouble.

Long story short, last week, the four of us plus another person met up again to play a board game. I took extra special care to keep away from her and things were going fine until it was me and the new person playing the game on the carpet. While I was focused on the game, the Asian girl went to the couch behind me and laid down. I was reclining against it and didn’t notice her feet behind me. I was moving into the feeling until the third or fourth time when I realized it was her foot brushing against my neck slightly. I moved slightly and didn’t try to make it seem like it was bothering me. Once I had moved enough that she couldn’t do that, she faked getting up and asking me a question. When I turned around, again, she had her feet at my eye level. I could see her smile as I tried to move my head to see her while she moved her feet in the way so that all I could get a good look at was her feet. She asked me to pass her a drink, which was right beside me. I did that quickly, looked away, and took the opportunity to move away from her. The other person didn’t notice and the rest of the game went on as planned.

After leaving, she ended up getting my number from my friends. She’s best friends with one of my friends so it wasn’t too hard on her part. I didn’t find out who it was until she told me that it was “ and my beautiful Asian feet”. I told her that I was going to bed and not to text me anymore. Her response was to have a nice dream. Here’s where it gets weird. I ended up dreaming of the time a couple weeks prior where the four of us had fun…but I also remembered the time afterwards she had put my feet in her lap and then had me look at them for a bit. It seemed like time stopped. I woke up from it and got scared. It got to me and bothered me, but not as much as the text she sent me. “Good morning! Hope you had a good sleep and dreamt of my special feet last night! ” I made the mistake of saying “Hey, yeah, bye.” She ended up telling me “how she was so proud of me” and other messages over the course of the day that I won’t mention. Now, even while I was out doing errands today, I kept coming back to that dream and her text messages. I know she likes me but I’m really not into some of the stuff she appears to be into. I don’t want to bother my friends and if I argue with her, I might lose some of my closest friends. She seems to be really nice and that dream is really getting to me because, in my dream, I thought I could have changed things after I pushed her feet away and, instead, I found myself looking deeply at them again just like she asked. I am an older guy so I know I haven’t found anyone’s feet attractive in my life – ever. Yet, this time, I did feel proud in my dreams when she told me that she was proud of me looking at her feet – which I definitely didn’t before.

My friends and I probably aren’t going to hang out this weekend but what should I do? Every time I want to hang out, it seems like she is there. I’m slowly coming around to her weird ways but I’ve been neglecting texting her back because I don’t know what to think anymore. What do you think I should do? There’s a lot of stuff, so I don’t know if there’s a simple answer. I know that if I keep hanging with those friends of mine, I’ll eventually run into her and have to deal with this. Whereas I was angry at her before, I’m not so sure anymore. Please give me a good response and help me out!

Best answer:

Answer by Leila
Summary? I’m sorry, I’m too high to read all of that, really. What happened?

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