Question by Bill Swersky: Why is this Asian girl I know acting so strangely?
There is this Asian friend of friends of mine who has been acting weird lately and I need good advice. We were having a small get together two weekends ago at a friend’s place and having a good night when two of the four people left the room to grab something from the kitchen downstairs, leaving me and her. Without a word, she took off her sandals, put her bare feet on my lap, and smiled. I don’t enjoy people doing that anyways, let alone without permission, so I pushed them away. As I was telling her why that I wasn’t in the mood for that sort of stuff and didn’t like it, she lifted her feet up at my eye level and wiggled her toes slightly. When I asked why she was doing that, she told me “Because I want you to see how special and beautiful my feet are, silly!”. She asked me to look deeply at them for ten seconds and I agreed on the condition she’d finally stop. After gazing at them, she finally took them away and hid them, thankfully, but not before saying how proud she was of me that I would do that for her. My friends came back then and I made my excuses to leave shortly afterwards. I didn’t tell my friends because I did not want to cause trouble.
Long story short, last week, the four of us plus another person met up again to play a board game. I took extra special care to keep away from her and things were going fine until it was me and the new person playing the game on the carpet. While I was focused on the game, the Asian girl went to the couch behind me and laid down. I was reclining against it and didn’t notice her feet behind me. I was moving into the feeling until the third or fourth time when I realized it was her foot brushing against my neck slightly. I moved slightly and didn’t try to make it seem like it was bothering me. Once I had moved enough that she couldn’t do that, she faked getting up and asking me a question. When I turned around, again, she had her feet at my eye level. I could see her smile as I tried to move my head to see her while she moved her feet in the way so that all I could get a good look at was her feet. She asked me to pass her a drink, which was right beside me. I did that quickly, looked away, and took the opportunity to move away from her. The other person didn’t notice and the rest of the game went on as planned.
After leaving, she ended up getting my number from my friends. She’s best friends with one of my friends so it wasn’t too hard on her part. I didn’t find out who it was until she told me that it was “
My friends and I probably aren’t going to hang out this weekend but what should I do? Every time I want to hang out, it seems like she is there. I’m slowly coming around to her weird ways but I’ve been neglecting texting her back because I don’t know what to think anymore. What do you think I should do? There’s a lot of stuff, so I don’t know if there’s a simple answer. I know that if I keep hanging with those friends of mine, I’ll eventually run into her and have to deal with this. Whereas I was angry at her before, I’m not so sure anymore. Please give me a good response and help me out!
Answer by Leila
Summary? I’m sorry, I’m too high to read all of that, really. What happened?
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